One Perfect Person

Do you remember when was last time you had this sweet butterfly in the stomach feeling. It is a magical feeling that catches us like a virus or something, or is it chemistry (like completing each other in every way)?

I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everyone in the world, and when you found that person the rest of the world magically faded away, and  the two of you would just be inside this protective bubble, but there is no bubble. I know if there is you have to make it. I just think life is more than a series of moments,  we can make choices, and we can choose to protect the people we love, care for the people we love, and that’s what makes us who we are and those are the real memories.

Dalai Lama said ‘Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.’ I think Dalai is a very wise man. Indeed when we are so dependent on each other, we perhaps lose ourselves and eventually other important things such as friends and soul. A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your friends, your dream and your dignity. I will want you to chase your dream and for us to chase our dreams.

I found this little piece. It is about us.

love

Published by Minna

a busy bee mother, an non-nurdy developer, and a person that is pretty normal working in an odd world

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